By Good News Network Friday, April 27, 2007
EDITOR'S BLOG — What is one to say after the worst school shooting in history? And on the very same day, the worst bombings in Iraq to date? ... I continued publishing positive news even though I felt like an imposter. Like other artists, whose creations feed the soul rather than providing benefits in outwardly practical ways, I felt an inadequacy and uselessness in the wake of the tragedy. Then I remembered the days after 9/11, when I confided to my ten-year-old boy that maybe sharing the good news was pointless in these horrific times. He countered, "Good news is more important than EVER!"Although I'm unable to see it without hindsight, people do want good news in times of terrible pain. The biggest spike in my traffic was September 12, 2001, and last week after the shootings GNN served more pages in a single day than it ever has.
Talk shows were discussing the notion of bad news. On The View, guest host Aisha Taylor said, "There's so much negative news out there that people are obsessed with things that mean nothing..." Ellen DeGeneres says she hates when people call and leave bad news on her answering machine, "Hey Ellen! Did you hear..." She said there's enough bad news for her, tell her some good news!
So here's what I'd tell her:
A father and son who lost their daughter (or sister) in the Columbine school shootings have been dedicating themselves to spreading the word in high school gymnasiums throughout America that only through fostering "an atmosphere of genuine kindness" toward other students can we effectively prevent school shootings. Their organization is called Rachel's Challenge, and the young man, Craig, who saw his sister gunned down, spoke on Oprah last week about the need to offer fellow students who are alone and angry, a "heart connection to bring him back to human touch."
A similar message was broadcast on YouTube last week and viewed a half million times: A girl, who survived the school massacre in Paducah, Kentucky, talks from her wheelchair about how we've already got a powerful solution to the violence in the way that we treat people. She carries absolutely no malice for the boy who opened fire on her and her friends and is a tremendous spokesperson. She's got a happy life, charged with purpose, a new husband and a baby on the way — even though paralyzed from the chest down. (full story)
A third piece of good news: Doing something to bring peace, hundreds of women from 30 countries cycled together around the Middle East in the third annual "Follow the Women - Women for Peace" ride. The roads were lined with crowds cheering; British and Iranian riders became buddies; and among the Palestinians was 24-year-old Lena, the daughter of Yasser Arafat. Stereotypes were left behind: One Lebanese woman said, "The Iranian girls surprised me. They are so smart and gorgeous." Most of the Western cyclists were shocked to learn the Middle East is not what it seems to be in the media! (full story)
I think all of us are like that. We have hope there's good out there and yet, are always surprised to find it where we least expect it... Until next week, good bless...
Comments
It is so refreshing to read pages after pages of happy news and information that talks/discusses how we can find the positive in negative situations.
Much happiness, and kudos to your enlightened 10 year old.
It is about time that the newspapers and the media in general started to balance the "facts" of the day with some of the uplifting things that go on in our world. If people would start contacting the radio, TV and newspapers to let them know they are sick of sensationalized , lopsided news reporting, perhaps we can make a change in how people see the world. If someone is in a depressed state and all they see every day is reports of crime, violence, and bad news, how can they be lifted up?
I gave up watching news shows about ten years ago because I got so sick of hearing about the evil in the world. It is not a true picture of all that goes on. People have said, "you have to know what is going on in the world. Believe me, if it is really important, someone WILL tell you. I go to the Internet and based on headlines only, choose what stories I will let into my head. The old saying of "garbage in; garbage out" is also true with people. Eliminate as much garbage as possible.
St. Paul's letter to the Philippians 4:8-9 says it the best. "Whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is gracious, if there is any excellence and if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things. Keep on doing what you have learned and received and heard and seen in me. Then the God of peace will be with you." God Bless your Good News Network - it is my home page.
Thank you for doing this.
I'm kind of annoyed that you are even mentioning the bad news now. I want a place that doesn't even mention it. I was expecting to read about Hawking's zero-g flight today.
Thanks for registering so you could comment. That is really interesting and confirms the inference I made.
I take pride that my site has ONLY the best most compelling stories. Other sites post stories like "Anthony Hopkins gets role in new film" and stuff like that. I take care to protect your time, and only post stuff that is pretty moving.
I'm sorry some are irritated by the focus on the bad news over the last week or two. But I think to post the positive found in the negative is very instructive.
In this instance, it was a weekly column for other media, that I had finished and needed to archive on the site. (Which is also why I posted the YouTube of the shooting victim from 1997 incident, because I referred to it in the column and needed to provide a link.
Thanks everyone for your comments. It has been a hard week for me because there hare a lot of technical issues with the site and newsletter that are hampering me and frustrating me immensely. (The newsletter is suspended until I can get issues resolved -- only one of which is the fact that some frickin spam companies have tagged me as a spammer! Lord-ie help me!)
Thank you for this site. It's theraputic.
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