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Tribute of Thanks to Mr. Rogers

Fred McFeely Rogers, 74, host of TV’s Mister Rogers’ Neighborhood, died February 27, 2003 of stomach cancer

Sometimes it takes a crisis or loss to uncover the natural bond we have with strangers. But for Mr. Rogers, the connection was natural and heartfelt. The world was his ‘neighborhood’.

For a 1998 Esquire cover story, Can You Say, HERO? Fred Rogers allowed the author to follow him around for a week. Mr. Rogers — described as being “in a perpetual state of astonishment ” — said to the writer, “The connections we make in the course of life – Maybe that’s what Heaven is! We make so many connections here on earth. Look at us: I’ve just met you, but I’m invested in who you are and who you will be and I can’t help it.”

Fred McFeely Rogers, 74, an ordained Presbyterian minister, died February 27. His message remained simple: he told his young viewers to love themselves and love others.

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Chicken Manure, Fats, New Source of Energy

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University of Georgia scientists say chicken fat, restaurant grease, and other ‘bio-fuels’ are a good alternative to fuel oil. In fact, a giant retrofitted steam boiler is already heating the Athens, GA campus buildings with fat and grease from chicken, pork and beef. It produces about 90% of the heat of fuel oil and is lower in air pollution emissions. Next, the animal fats will be tested as automotive fuel. 5.5 million tons of animal fat produced each year could become a fuel resource.

Beating the Odds: A Tale Of A Single Parent

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mother and daughterWhat do you do when the odds are against you? When statistics predict failure in spite of your best intentions, how do you react? What follows is a story of how my children and I weathered the hardships and handicaps of single parenting to beat the odds.

Born and raised in a rural part of Africa, I arrived in North America from an entirely different culture and very naive. As customary in my home village I married quite young. That marriage didn’t work out however, so I was faced with raising three children on my own, with very little money.

My greatest challenge was meeting my children’s needs without sacrificing quality time with them. Spending time with them was crucial because we had been separated for eight years and, as a result, were more like strangers when we reunited. Preparing to have my children live with me, I worked two jobs and freelanced to raise the funds I needed to fly them from Nigeria.

Once they arrived, we needed all the time we could spend together. I quit the second job. But we also needed enough money for rent, food, and other living expenses. Credit was not an option, so I had to go back to working two jobs with frequent overtime.

I only saw my children for brief moments in the mornings as we hurried through breakfast. The cost of working so much meant that I only saw my children for brief moments in the mornings as we hurried through breakfast and out the door. They came home to an empty apartment and waited for hours for me to arrive home. They could not participate in extracurricular activities because they had no transportation. Some nights they were in bed by the time I reached home. I had no energy left to look at anything they brought home from school, much less to check their homework. To add insult to injury, the few minimum wage dollars I made were wasted on fast food, since I didn’t have time to cook. It wasn’t long before they began to struggle with their school work and it showed in their grades. I had to come up with other options.

I presented the situation to my children during our weekly family time and we unanimously voted for me to quit the second job so I could be home in the evenings. We brainstormed for ways to save money and for inexpensive activities for our time together. By trimming our budget and stocking up on things when they were on sale, we were able to save money while doing things together. We went to the farmer’s market together on Saturday mornings and trimmed coupons.

We all loved pizza but could not afford it. A bread-making course I took earlier came in handy. I brought out my recipes and notes. Before long we were making our own pizza and pastry.

Friday became “Pizza in front of the TV night”

My children started the dough and tomato sauce when they arrived home from school. By the time I reached home, the dough was ready. We had fun adding personal touches. With a few cans of soft drink, our very own garlic bread sticks and a bowl of tossed salad, we had an “all you can eat” feast in front of the TV. In those days Friday night was comedy night on local stations. We did not have cable, but didn’t miss it. Our TV time was limited to a few hours a week because of homework and chores.

I went to school two nights a week to finish my bachelor’s degree. That also became a family affair as we all went to my college campus together. My children did their homework in the library while I attended classes. Eventually, I found housecleaning jobs we did on weekends.

We didn’t have everything we wanted, but we did have most of what we needed. Today, as I look back on our struggles I can see that our sacrifices paid off. Two of my children are now engineers, the third is a computer specialist.

Muslim Saves Jewish Temple From Arson’s Torching

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heroesA Muslim gas station attendant in New York City saved a Jewish synagogue from arson with his phone call to 911.

Syed Ali, a Pakistani immigrant watched in disbelief after a man, a Bosnian Muslim who bought gasoline, marched across the street, and began dousing the front of the temple.

Police arrived before the match was struck. Ali declined the mantle of hero saying, “It was a sacred place he was going to destroy.”

Diet Linked to Hyper Kids

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hot-dog-by-geriA revolution has turned around Central Alternative High School in Appleton, Wisconsin, and its ‘problem kids’, sent there from twelve area schools. Respect, achievement, and discipline prevail where once kids packed weapons, took drugs, and exhibited “terrible rudeness.”

Before 1997 the teens ingested a slurry of behavior-altering chemicals that left them irritable, fidgety, and unable to concentrate. The culprit chemicals were not cocaine, speed, marijuana or heroin, but the industrial food additives found on grocers’ shelves.

Thanks to the simple elimination of commonly lurking food dyes, chemical flavorings, and preservatives, and the introduction of fresh nutritional foods for breakfast and lunch, the school boasts five years of zero drop-outs, zero expulsions, zero drugs, zero weapons possession, and zero fighting on campus.

The startling success at Central Alternative High (CAHS) led the state of Wisconsin to grant funds for the printing and distribution of packets of information about Appleton’s nutrition program to 500 of its alternative schools. Already, other area schools have dumped vending machines in favor of salad bars.

The Appleton Revolution

The Appleton experiment is part of a growing body of evidence that points to extensive chemical processing of children’s foods as a leading culprit in the 20 year surge of cases of hyperactivity (A.D.D./A.D.H.D.), depression and obesity in America’s children.

Consider the simple fact that synthetic food dyes which permeate kids’ food today — including even white marshmallows and toothpaste — are synthesized from petroleum. Scientists have found that many people are sensitive to these petrol-based chemicals, which can trigger a wide number of behavior, learning, and health problems by interfering with electrical functioning of neurotransmitters and synapses of the brain.

Since 1976, the nonprofit Feingold Association has achieved amazing results helping families whose children are diagnosed with hyperactive disorders. The Feingold program is a diet free of synthetic colors and flavors, and the preservatives BHA, BHT and TBHQ.

Barbara Stitt was inspired in the 1970’s seeing the effects of the Feingold program: “The kids would just change.” But earlier than that, in 1963, while working as a parole officer, Stitt discovered a book that dramatically improved her own deteriorating health. She decided to teach its nutritional principles to her 112 parolees and then followed them for 12 years. After they changed their diet, “They looked different, felt different, and sounded different.” 89% did not get back into trouble — a rate unheard of in prison recidivism.Mediterranean diet-veggies-dips-mealmakeovermoms

Diet May Cut Risk of Alzheimer’s by 50% (Long-term Study of 900 Seniors)

 

Stitt and her husband, a biochemist, own Natural Ovens, the Manitowoc, Wisconsin bakery that launched the Appleton revolution. They underwrote the $20,000 annual cost for the special breakfast and lunch program and provided 3 chefs to prepare whole foods like salads, old fashioned recipes, and whole grain breads that include Omega-3 oils (“brain food”) found in Flax seed. The Natural Ovens menu is served every day of the year but two, which are designated ‘Junk Food Days’.

Natural Ovens’ ‘Junk Food Days’

Salad platterThe students eat all junk for breakfast and lunch. At 2:00 PM they write down how they are feeling in their bodies. The next morning they record how they slept and how they felt at home. “It is exciting for the teachers,” says Stitt. After dosing themselves with junk, “The kids can’t spell, can’t finish a sentence. The pulse rate for second graders doubles. The experience opens the kids’ eyes. They see that what they put in their mouths effects their behavior.”

Stitt’s work in Wisconsin schools is a continuation of the late Dr. Feingold’s mission. “These are our children. This is our future. I don’t think there’s anything more important facing us today. It is taking a toll we cannot afford.”

“Kids this year are calmer, more rational. I had thought about retiring but I’ve decided I’m having too much fun. – Appleton science teacher, Dennis Abrahm

When people argue against the higher cost of a nutritious lunch, CAHS principle, LuAnne Coenen doesn’t buy it. She says the savings are high. “We don’t have the trash, the graffiti, the need for high security. One kid incarcerated costs the state $20,000 for one year. Our lunches cost the school 50 cents per student per day (above the cost of typical lunches).”

After years of excusing erratic behavior with, ‘Its just hormones,’ or ‘Middle-schoolers can’t sit still,’ the Appleton experiment uncovers a more insidious cause. Greg Bretthauer, Dean of Students at CAHS exclaims, “If they don’t come doped up on bad food, by God, they have the chance to learn something.” Grades, test scores, and achievement are all up at CAHS. Responding to such growing evidence, the Los Angeles school district — the nation’s largest — will eliminate soda vending machines from all of its buildings beginning January 1, 2003.

A Feingold Lunch Box:
peanut butter, tuna or egg salad, certain potato chips, Snack Pack chocolate pudding, fruits, Juicy Juice
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The Appleton revolution hails a new way to treat A.D.H.D. kids, and supports the theory that there may be no such disorder at all, but just an explosion of symptoms caused by ingesting a witch’s brew of chemicals in everyday products.

To learn more information, or to read chapter one of Why Can’t My Child Behave,
visit the Feingold Association Web site.

Building the Case For Nutrition Reform

cereal-fruit-loops-ppdigital-morguefileThe Center for Science in the Public Interest released a report in 1999 concluding that in 17 of 23 studies evidence strongly indicates that for some children behavioral disorders are caused or aggravated by certain food additives and artificial food colors. The Center joined a group of physicians and scientists urging the Department of Health and Human Services to advise parents and doctors to try changing the diets of children with ADHD before placing them on stimulant drugs like Ritalin, with their side effects. A NIH report suggested that the government “consider banning synthetic dyes in foods consumed widely by children.” (“Diet, A.D.H.D. and Behavior,” www.cspinet.org)

The New York City Board of Education, in 1979, instituted dietary changes in 803 schools that raised test scores a whopping 15 percentile points by gradually removing synthetic colors and flavors and some preservatives, and by reducing sugar in the foods served at breakfast and lunch. Before the change, test scores ranked in the 39th percentile. Four years later the students scored in the 55th percentile. (International Journal of Biosocial Research, Vol. 8, No. 2, 1986.)

A new double-blind University of Oxford study published in the British Journal of Psychiatry (2002) reported that over a nine month period half of a group of 231 adult male prisoners were given vitamins, minerals and Omega-3 fatty acids. They committed 26.3% fewer offenses than in previous months and 40% fewer violent offenses. The men who received the placebo pills continued to behave as they had all along. The Researchers hailed the improvements as ‘huge’.

The Feingold Association newsletter, Pure Facts, described 10 year-old Bradlea Fletcher’s school science fair project on the effect of food dyes. She took 8 mice and ran them through a maze for 6 days. Then she divided them in half and added 2 drops of yellow food dye to one cage’s water dish, then timed them for 6 days more. The mice with the dyes were 50% slower than in earlier runs, while the normal mice improved their time by 25%. Additionally, the tainted mice became harder to catch and aggressive — one even bit her, while the normal mice became tamer.

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New Microbe Destroys Chemical Pollutant in Groundwater

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CANCER BLOOD TEST VOAScientists have discovered a microbe that interacts with a hazardous industrial chemical in tainted groundwater rendering it biodegradable.

Trichloroethane (TCA) is an industrial solvent and a major polluter of groundwater in 696 of the priority sites listed by the Environmental Protection Agency. Up until now, no process was known for easily treating TCA contaminated aquifers and groundwater.

Last week, Michigan State University researchers reported in the journal Science that a bacteria, previously unknown and found in the mud of river bottoms, uses the process of respiration to completely neutralize any TCA it contacts within about two months.

Comeback News: Seals, Humpbacks, and Urchins Increasing

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  • whale in shipping lane-Cascadia ResearchSteller sea lions in Alaska are making a comeback. An aerial survey of the Gulf of Alaska and Aleutian Islands spotted more than 19,000 adults, a 5.5% increase over 2 years. The population plummeted by more than 80% over the last 25 years and was listed as endangered in 1997.
  • Whale experts believe the population of Humpback Whales is growing around 10% a year. Humpbacks once numbered between 15,000-20,000 in the South Pacific until harpooning reduced them to just 200-500 by the 1960’s. Now, they have recovered to one quarter of the number they once were.
  • In 1983, an outbreak of disease in the largest coral reef in the Atlantic Ocean reduced long-spine sea urchin populations by 97%. Now, scientists report a 38% recovery since 1997 for sea urchins, which are critical to the health of the Mesoamerican Caribbean reef.

A Special Group of Soldiers, Vietnamese Orphans and Their American Angel

Betty Tisdale, Seattle, WA, is Angel to the Orphans of Vietnam

Betty Tisdale, Seattle, WA, is Angel to the Orphans of VietnamBetty Tisdale has a special spot in her heart for veterans, especially Vietnam vets. She read a book that changed her life by renowned Navy doctor, Tom Dooley, entitled, Deliver Us From Evil. She was so moved by the doctor’s work for the children of Vietnam that she took charge of the An Lac Orphanage in Saigon after Dooley’s untimely death from cancer at age 34. “I decided that An Lac was not going to die.” She sustained it for 14 years until the fall of Saigon in 1975, when she rushed together an army airlift of 219 babies out of Vietnam and into adopted homes in the U.S.

Tisdale reveres soldiers. “I can’t begin to tell you what they did. They were so wonderful!” The 121st Signal Battalion, 1st Infantry Division was stationed at a large base a few miles from the annex housing the older orphans of An Lac. The men adopted the orphanage and took care of the kids, building indoor toilets, showers, and doing maintenance. They even cooked a real Thanksgiving meal for hundreds of children serving turkey, mashed potatoes, and peas — instead of rice, which they ate all the time.

But Betty will never forget Christmas 1966, when Santa truly came to town — a poor, rural village 20 miles from Saigon. The 121st decided to surprise the orphans with a Christmas party. The GI’s wrote their wives, sisters and girlfriends back home and asked them to mail gifts for the children. On Christmas Day the Battalion arrived in trucks piled high with hundreds of brightly wrapped gifts and melting ice cream. Betty and the group heard the whirl of a helicopter overhead and looked up. “This sound meant our guys were flying off into combat and the sound was not a happy one for us.”

But, this time the helicopter landed in a field across from the orphanage and, “Walking towards us, waving to the children in full regalia and beard in 110 degrees of stifling heat, was the first Santa any of the children ever saw.”

A three-piece orchestra played Silver Bells. The children soon joined in with Jingle Bells, as Betty had taught them. Later they sang Auld Lang Syne in Vietnamese. “There wasn’t a dry eye in the audience of soldiers.” Maj. Bill Hilsman (now a General), Sgt. Ken Deeble, and Lt. Bob Fisher put it all together.

Betty remembers rows and rows of children, almost 400, lined up to receive presents. They faced the soldiers, all ranks and ages, sitting on the steps with piles of gifts stacked up. “As each child came up to receive their gift they put their hands across their chests and said, ‘Cam on’ — Thank-you.”

That’s when Betty looked up and saw a sight she’ll never forget — soldiers standing around the circumference of the annex’s flat roof, guns ready, to protect the children and staff of volunteers from snipers. “We owed our lives to this wonderful group of solders.”

Twenty years later, in 1995 when Tisdale returned to find the children left behind, she had a reunion with 60 of them, now grown. The first thing they did was sing Jingle Bells to show they had not forgotten their Betty.

Orphanage Annex Built this Year with only $34,000 in Contributions to HALO

During a visit to Vietnam in March 2002, Tisdale, who had created a nonprofit organization called HALO, Helping And Loving Orphans, learned that nearly 50 homeless children in the area could be housed at the Quang Ngai orphanage if $34,000 could be raised to build an annex. She vowed to help and five months later she cut the ribbon on a beautiful new building.

“Each room is big and airy… and has a bathroom connected with sink, shower and toilet. To see what $34,000 can build is amazing!” A plaque in both English and Vietnamese reads, In Memory of Dr. Tom Dooley, who loved the children of Vietnam, 1927-1961.

(Thank you to AngelScribe for suggesting the story from the book, A Christmas Filled with Miracles.)

First International Positive Psychology Summit: Psychologists Herald ways to Live Happily Ever After

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psycsummitA group of upstart scientists, scholars and researchers in the field of psychology have decided that it is more important to focus on what is right with people than what is wrong with people. 200 psychologists from 20 countries convened this weekend in Washington, D.C. for the first annual international summit to exchange research and ideas on such topics as love, flow, wisdom and well-being.

“The world has an appetite for this type of stuff,” declares Dr. Martin Seligman of the University of Pennsylvania, the self-described cheerleader of the new positive psychology movement. Seligman, a former president of the American Psychological Association, founded the Positive Psychology Network and authored the new book, Authentic Happiness: Using the New Positive Psychology To Realize Your Potential For Lasting Fulfillment. He sees the most exciting prospects for this work in simple but dramatic terms. “We can change for the better the total amount of happiness in the world.”

But what about today’s new world, marked by fears of terrorism and a new anxiety about the future? Since September 11th, Seligman has determined that one of the best ways to help suffering people is to focus on positive things. A parade of studies presented this weekend confirmed the experience that positive emotions, when generated, cause negative emotion to dissipate rapidly. Thus, researchers are hoping to prevent depression before it occurs.

A recent Newsweek magazine cover story on teenage depression underscores the enormous room for improvement in mental health today. Almost 3 million teens struggle with depression, most without help. One of the most effective ways to utilize positive psychology to benefit society is to teach about it in schools. But how to muster the will in schools when SOL test scores have become the all-consuming goal?

Well, Seligman’s group was awarded a $2.8 million grant from the Department of Education to augment a 9th grade language arts curriculum with an emphasis on human strengths and positive emotions contained within the course literature. The grant will fund a long term study to trace the lives of students who took the course, and compare outcomes to those from students who took the same course but without the positive psychology enrichment.

Judging from the research presentations at the summit, adolescents who are taught the tools to well-being will live happier lives than those who are not. For instance, one study asked whether character predicts happiness in adolescence (U. of Penn). The results indicated that, yes, kids with self-described virtues were happier, and that “nice guys DON’T finish last.”

What would be the outcome if more psychologists, teachers, therapists, AND parents focused on what people were doing right? The foremost proponent of the movement, Dr. Seligman, believes that, “An era of good feeling literally is possible.” (OCT. 6, 2002)

 

Some Highlights of the 4-day First International Positive Psychology Summit sponsored byThe Gallup Organization:  “The heart really is an organ of emotion. It’s not just a metaphor.”- Jonathan Haidt, the University of Virgina

 

Haidt reported on his work with the phenomenon he terms, Elevation. When presented with a moving act of charity, the body experiences a warm feeling in the chest or throat, a response that is generated by the vagas nerve. Most importantly, a strong desire is felt in ourselves to do similar charitable acts also. Thus, “efforts to promote and publicize altruism may therefore have widespread and cost-effective results.” (The Positive Emotion of Elevation by Jonathan Haidt)

 

“You don’t have to think the world is a good place to be happy.”– Michael Poulin and collegues, University of California Irvin.

 

Poulin and others studied 933 people outside of New York City about the Assumption in Beliefs About the Self and the World Post 9/11. The surprising thing to most people would be the finding that these New Yorkers, within weeks of the attacks of September 11, still saw the world as a good place and still saw people as good. The determining factor was that they viewed themselves in a positive light.  “Individuals with a strong sense of meaning in life were able to leverage worries they felt about the terrorist events into positive life changes.”-Michael Steger, University of Minnesota

 

Three months after 9/11, a sample of 188 Midwestern college students revealed that possesion of a strong sense of meaning or purpose in your life protected you from detrimental effects of post-traumatic stress. Somehow this meaning was a resource that gave people a tool for growth, such as a greater appreciation of family and friends, changing their life for the better.

 

“Some research states that reliving the stress may not be helpful, and may even be hurtful.” – Jane Henry, Open University

 

In Strategies for Achieving Well Being, 300 people from 20 nationalities were studied to find out what provided them with the greatest subjective well being. The top three were:

  1. Quieting the Mind. This could be meditation, fishing, following intuitive urgings, or being in nature.
  2. Physical activity. Including exercise, painting watercolors, dancing, or anything that requires a focus of creativity or body.
  3. Social Support. “Most therapists don’t prescribe staying in touch with your friends,” lamented Henry. But, social groups, socializing activities, like getting out for the evening, or receiving reassurance from others such as a spouse, are top strategies for staying mentally healthy.

Forest Restoration Program Alleviates Poverty

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Forest stream deep green Tasmania  DSEWPaC-attributionThe Cauto River, Cuba’s longest, was ravaged by a five-year drought, and its forests were destroyed for firewood. River banks crumbled, damaging the river’s fragile ecology. Five million trees later, the Cauto’s forests are coming back to life and local livelihoods are on the upswing, thanks to a community-oriented reforestation project supported by United Nations Development Program.

Persistence Pays for PhD Student Once Labeled Retarded

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Dave Dawson’s future looked bleak in 1974. Based on tests, his ninth-grade teachers labeled him mentally retarded. “My vocational expectation was to be a grocery store bagger,” Dawson said. In fact, he even took classes to learn the proper way to bag groceries. But today, he is the proud owner of a recently completed PhD from the University of Iowa’s College of Education.

butterflies, illustrationDawson remembers his ongoing frustration with school. “I would fail no matter what I did, no matter how hard I studied.” Pouring salt on the wound, school officials posted failing students’ names and test scores on a bulletin board for all to see. Dawson appeared regularly. His frustration erupted in behavior problems. Seemingly unable to succeed academically like his classmates, Dawson turned the tables. “I would stand up and cheer when I got the lowest grade in the class,” he said.  A psychiatrist finally diagnosed a learning disability.

Not the ‘Dumbest’

He was placed in the most remedial class in the school. “For the first time I was with a peer group. And for the first time I was not the — the only way I can phrase this, and I hate this word — the dumbest.” His parents paid tutors to work with him. A summer academy for kids with learning disabilities helped him learn to read — a little. Dawson volunteered to use any tool or technique that might help. “I was in every experiment you could be in,” he said. By 10th grade, he was taking several mainstream classes. By 11th, he was in all regular classes. He decided to go to college. He tried several. Frustrated, he dropped out of each one. But he never gave up.

Eventually, after years of struggle and frustration, Dawson earned a degree in psychology, specializing in rehabilitation. He obtained his master’s degree and recently his PhD at the University of Iowa.

If you want your dream bad enough…

The road from would-be grocery-bagger to doctorate was not easy. With the help of assistive technologies, including scanners that read out loud, he made it through — and became an advocate.

Dawson convinced the university to give him $5,000 to buy more equipment for students with disabilities, and to instruct teachers about the groundbreaking technologies. His persistent advocacy won him a grant and he created the Iowa Center for Assistive Technology and Educational Resources, where he is now director.

Occasionally his 3-year old son has to correct him when they’re reading a bedtime story together. But if his struggles have proven anything, it is that persistence pays. “If I can do this, you really can too,” he said. “If you want your dream bad enough, stick to it. It can happen.”

Bill Asenjo and Dave Dawson shared an office while working on their PhD’s.

Contact Dave at: [email protected] (319) 335-5624

Palestinians and Jews: Working Together. Eating Together.

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Palestinians and Jews have finally found a place where they can safely meet and listen to each other’s grievances and understand each other’s pain while in the same room — a living room.

As their governments grapple with suicide bombers and military invasion, 40 groups of Palestinians and Jews are building relationships of caring and mutual respect in living rooms across the US and the Middle East, with the goal of building trust between peoples who have rarely known each other.

Israelis have told Len and Libby Taubman, who started the first Living Room Dialogue Group 10 years ago in San Mateo, CA., “I never knew a Palestinian in all the years I lived in Israel.” During the 192 monthly meetings held in the Taubman’s living room since 1992 the 30 Jewish and Arab participants have become close friends.

“What war is about is lack of communication. It is both sides trying to be heard and not being listened to,” insists Libby, “ and that’s what we do in Living Room Dialogue. Dialogue is not conversation, or debate. It is open listening to the other person’s narrative or story.”

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Taubman explains how frustrations are eased through the dialogue. “Especially for our Palestinian friends from Ramallah. They have families there. Some of them have had their houses broken into by Israeli soldiers and they’ve been locked in their bathrooms for hours. So, coming here and getting to express it in the group — and educate all of us — helps. It has become a support group. People are feeling very depressed, angry, or fearful.” But the most significant benefit of Dialogue Groups is when members speak up back in their own communities, showing support for both sides.

“Right now you can see everybody is choosing sides and if you’re not on my side, you’re a traitor — and that is going nowhere.  Being for only one side and shaking your fist is not solving the problem. Until we can want the best for each other, understand the needs of both peoples that are unique to them, be for both peoples equally… nothing is going to be resolved.” One of their stated goals is to wake up the American public and their representatives to realize there are two narratives and suggest that before they lobby for one side they need to hear both peoples’ stories. Then, the U.S. can be in a better position to be the peace broker.

The dialogue groups use technology to network with each other and to earn new supporters. An e-mail list of over 900 persons regularly receives positive stories from the Taubmans about Palestinians and Jews working together for mutual benefit. In internet chat rooms the groups exchange news with folks back in the homeland. Libby tells of Palestinians, who in the beginning of the conversation say ‘you’re the enemy.’ “They use profanities and say ‘I’d like to kill you.’ We say wait, wait, wait. Let us tell you about our dialogue group — and with the Webcam we can show headlines about the group and hold up pictures of the group. After a really intense hour, they begin to change, and then all of a sudden you have this amazing new friend who can’t believe he’s talking to a Jew who cares about him. It’s very powerful. So we feel like we do have an impact over there.”

How can they hold meetings when things back home are deteriorating?

Everybody tells Libby, “ ‘This is where I experience hope.’ We see what is possible” She points out that there are reasons for hope because of things like the more than 400 refuseniks in the Israeli Defense Force who are refusing to serve in the occupied territories, because of the peace rally in Tel Aviv — the first one in a long time — that drew 60-100 thousand demonstrators, because of the Saudi peace proposal, because of the 1000 phone calls flooding a New York radio station after a story about a Brooklyn dialogue group, because there is a long waiting list of people who want to join their own group, and because the Palestinian people — like the Jewish people — are a very determined and resilient group. “They are kind of mirror images of each other… cousins going back to Abraham!”

Visit website for the Livingroom Dialogue Groups.

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Kenya Saves Trees

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leavesKenyan President Daniel arap Moi said he would take “drastic measures” to stop the degradation of his African nation’s forests, including banning timber harvesting in protected areas and prosecuting offenders. Moi appointed a retired military official to supervise forest management.

Amish Come to Rescue of Town Flattened by Tornado

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Amish-raise-barnTornados hit La Plata, Maryland killing three people and ruining 400 homes. The entire town center was destroyed.

After the devastation another force came to town: the Amish.

A gang of Amish volunteers came to La Plata to help rebuild. The men brought their chain saws and horse carriages. They didn’t say much.

The mayor said, “God Bless them. The Amish don’t talk; they just work.”

Heard on America’s Good News radio By Alex Randall, U.S.Virgin Islands.

Maximum-Security Prisoners Knit for Needy Children

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knitting tatoo knitter-Flickr-tadt3-CCIn New York’s maximum-security prison in Auburn, inmates from the prison chapter of Vietnam Veterans of America spent their free time making Christmas gifts for needy children. The men crocheted more than 200 sets of hats, gloves, hand-crafted yarn belts and fleece-lined moccasins.

“These men are still human and they have hearts,” a prison spokesperson said. “This is truly a labor of love.”

“Some kids go to school without hats and scarves,” said Robert Ahalt, a convicted murderer. “It makes me feel good knowing that someone is wearing something I made for them.”

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“Mom (or dad)… I Love You”

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Indian women SunStarPast hurts stay in our minds and hearts. If we are lucky they can be healed while we are still alive.

Mom and I fought since childhood. I’d say black, she’d say white. It did not matter on what subject. I found myself many times in the bathroom crying so hard I could not breath. All I wanted was for Mom to come to me and say “It’s OK honey, I love you, no matter what,” or just hold me. That never happened. Thankfully my older sister, would eventually come to calm me down. “Oh, don’t let her bother you, she is in her own world.” (Which was true — the world of past hurts.)

40 years later, the visits between mom and I started nicely enough — we lived 400 miles apart — but then I’d say black and she’d say white. The cycle would begin. Last December, one of our black/white issues arose and it was a doozie! It seemed impossible to make peace. I was at my wit’s end and didn’t know what to do. Then, a feeling came over me. I went to Mom, held her in a hug, kissed her, and would not let her go. I rocked her back and forth in my arms and kept saying, “I’m sorry Mom, I love you.” I said, “I love you. l love you.” over and over again. Mom melted in my arms.

Mom did not have anyone saying, “I love you,” to her when she was growing up!

At that moment I realized that as much as I needed love and acceptance from her all these years, she needed it too! Mom had survived an abusive childhood. She did not have anyone saying, “I love you,” to her when she was growing up! These were foreign words to her.

This explains why she did not know how to reach out and give her children what they needed… she never had a chance to heal. Two days later, we got into a little black/white issue (but less severe) and I went to the guest room in tears. I was back in that dark place alone, but a couple of minutes later Mom came in the room and this time she held me. She told me it was a silly little spat, and she loved me. We held each other until I finished crying out all the past hurts and she was there until the tears stopped.

Our relationship is different now. Each time I am in town I reach out to her, for no reason, to hug and hold her and tell her how much I love her. Mom now responds so differently to me. She is giving and not so quick to contradict me.

What a blessing that we were both still alive to be healed by uttering the words “I have ALWAYS loved you.”

(Anonymous author in AngelScribe.com)

Special Knitting Forces Help Afghan Kids One Stitch at a Time

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Special Kniting Forces logoSusan Marcus Palau realized while knitting that she could bring a little comfort to the innocent victims of the “war on terrorism”, especially the babies and children.

She organized the Special Knitting Forces to recruit knitters and crocheters to create one million caps, scarves, mittens, sweaters and blankets for children in Afghanistan.

The patterns were specially designed for knitters of all levels. Advanced knitters can add their own embellishments.

The Special Knitting Forces is part of the Ethical Society of Northern Westchester.

Contact: (914) 941-3544

A Million Books for Needy Kids

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together we can do it-CC-graphicThe goal for Scholastic Book Club’s ClassroomsCare initiative was for classrooms to read 100 books each, a total of one million books.

The reward? Scholastic would donate one million new books to children in need.

By the deadline, more than 70,000 classrooms reported they had read a grand total of 7 million books. A teacher from Michigan wrote, “Our class was so excited to read 100 books so that other children could have books too. Thank you for giving us a way to care.”

Good Samaritan Aids Traveler on his way to Damascus

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hope-signJackie Wilson drove into a Falls Church, Virginia shopping mall when for no apparent reason her attention locked on a young black man in his twenties wearing jeans and sweatshirt who was stopping a stranger to show him a piece of paper. Minutes later, across the parking lot he suddenly approached her, out of breath.

He told her he was in trouble.

Richmond State Prison Farm instructed him to arrive at a halfway house in Damascus, Maryland 60 miles away by 3 PM. Faulty directions, he said, led him to Jackie, lost and desperate. “I need help,” he said.

Jackie, in her sixties, offered him her favorite motherly advice: “Take 3 deep breaths. Release, let go, let God.” She asked if he believed in a higher power. He affirmed the idea and she calmed him with the assurance that all was in divine order.

“Have you eaten today?” No.

She gave him money and sent him to the KFC while she filled her ca-a (Boston accent) with gas. He returned and opened his hand with the change, which impressed her. They boarded the car for the drive to the subway station.

She learned his name was Clarence, he was from Delaware, had been in prison 10 years for what he described as a nonviolent drug offense. He talked about Enron, and how, “those men hurt so many people… and they won’t go to jail.”

He kept thanking her over and over.

He told her there were no buses from the subway station that would deliver him to Damascus. She gave him money for a cab. He kicked over his drink in her clean car and was fretting, trying to clean up the mess. She urged him out toward the trains, writing down her phone number in case he needed to verify his whereabouts.

When Jackie related the incident to her son, he flipped. “Are you crazy? Haven’t you heard of car-jackers!!” She said it never crossed her mind. It felt from the start that it was right. “I knew I was meant to help this young man. I had no fear.” And, she reports that since that day, everything is going her way. “It’s incredible. The universe is just flowing. Everything is coming to me. Incredible.”

$261 Million Donated to Save Rainforest Hot Spots

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Forest stream deep green Tasmania  DSEWPaC-attributionThe largest gift ever to a private conservation group was pledged to Conservation International by Intel Corp. cofounder Gordon Moore, 72, and his wife. $261 million was designated to help end plant and animal extinction in the world’s 25 “hotspots” and to protect tropical rainforest areas in Amazonia, New Guinea and the Congo.