When Ethan Kadish was struck by lightning just over a year ago, his family’s community in Cincinnati came together to provide the care and support they needed in inspiring and unexpected ways. Working with a nonprofit called HelpHOPELive, friends, neighbors, and local, national and international members of the Jewish community have helped raise funds to cover uninsured medical expenses related to Ethan’s care, which can exceed $100,000 per year.

At the end of June 2013 Ethan was at URJ Goldman Union Camp Institute near Indianapolis playing Ultimate Frisbee with a group of friends. A sudden lightning bolt struck Ethan, causing a traumatic brain injury that has kept him from speaking or moving independently since.

“Ethan was in the wrong place at the wrong time. He did nothing wrong. It could have been anyone,” says Ethan’s father, Scott.

Ethan spent four nights in the Intensive Care Unit (ICU) at Riley Children’s Hospital in Indianapolis before being transported back to Cincinnati, where his family has lived for 16 years, by Children’s Hospital’s Medical Transport Team. But his local community sparked an effort to support him before he even arrived at the ICU. Their synagogue held a prayer service on July 2, 2013.

“We were still out of town in Indianapolis and watched it online,” says Scott. “It was standing room only. Our community stepped up and hasn’t stopped.”

Scott was raised to be conservative with his money. He works for a Fortune 500 company and has insurance coverage. But soon after Ethan’s injury the hospital’s financial advocacy group talked to Scott about what out-of-pocket medical expenses he may be facing.

It wasn’t just a bill for the initial extended stay at the hospital. Long-term costs including accessible home modifications, uninsured medical and rehabilitation therapies, travel to specialized treatment centers, and 24-hour nursing care would all add up over time.

“It was an uncomfortable realization,” recalls Scott. “We were suddenly faced with a tragedy we couldn’t financially deal with. It became clear we needed help to cover Ethan’s medical costs.”

In mid-July, several weeks after Ethan’s injury, Scott met with his rabbi and she suggested he speak with Rebecca Carr, director of fundraising and patient services for an organization called HelpHOPELive.

“There is a Jewish expression that all the people of Israel are responsible for one another,” says Rebecca. “Ethan’s family is very involved with their synagogue. The whole community was in shock and ready to help.”

HelpHopeLive-logoHelpHOPELive is a nonprofit that specializes in engaging communities in fundraising campaigns for people who need a transplant or are affected by a catastrophic injury or illness. Over the past 30 years campaigns organized by HelpHOPELive have raised nearly $100 million to cover patient expenses.

“Integrity and credibility are so important in fundraising,” says Scott. “HelpHOPELive gave us an infrastructure to work off of.”

Soon an online presence was created and “Join Team Ethan” took off. The campaign to raise funds started with a home run derby and more than 30 events have been held in the past year. HelpHOPELive has oversight over all disbursements and donations are tax deductible to the contributors.

HelpHOPELive also provides promotional support and an online platform for accepting donations. And Ethan’s community has provided more than monetary support. Volunteers have helped with hot meals and even carpentry work.

Ethan ended up spending 222 days in the hospital following his injury. To date his fundraising effort has benefited from more than 4,000 unique contributors – more donations than any other individual HelpHOPELive campaign.

“HelpHOPELive has given us the ability to take action… the ability to say yes in Ethan’s treatment,” says Scott. “It’s easy to lose hope the longer things don’t return to normal. They give us hope.”

Last year Ethan’s family and HelpHOPELive met with the Jewish Federation of Cincinnati for a unique opportunity to brainstorm fundraising ideas. “Eighth Night for Ethan” was born… an annual event that asks families to dedicate their eighth Chanukah candle to Ethan and his recovery by donating to HelpHOPELive in honor of Ethan. Participants are invited to post a photo of themselves lighting their eighth candle on the Join Team Ethan Facebook page or on Twitter with the hashtag #8NE2.

“We have seen a side of good in humanity. I don’t know why, but it’s been an incredible outpouring of support,” says Scott. “There is no prognosis for Ethan. We can only try to help him progress. And there’s no way we can stop asking for help. Every month there are new challenges, and we need to get a broader community involved.”

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  1. What is remarkable about the Kadish family is that long before Ethan’s accident, they were quiet volunteers who helped families bringing their desperately ill children, children in situations like Ethan’s, to Cincinnati Children’s Hospital That’s only part of what they’ve brought to a community that loves them. They give and give and give, but when it comes to asking to help … well, that’s up to the rest of us. Please visit

    • Bill Weinstein is correct. Every word. We’ve only lived in Cincinnati for just under four years. Alexia and Scott Kadish welcomed us with open arms. We became family. Our children and their children are close in age. We all became good friends. Despite the Ethan’s injury, Alexia and Scott always find the positive with every situation and look toward’s the future. They’re still giving while learning to receive. Just like the saying says; “It takes a village, to raise a child.” A village is what they are receiving from all around the globe and at home in Cincinnati.

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